Those who tend to express negative feelings or those who constantly express a trait such as anger or irritability, may suffer from neuroticism. These people, intrinsically, have less satisfying sex so, if at the same time there is a marriage, it is more likely to end in divorce. But this whole story is like a dog chasing its tail. One may enter this trait in a marriage but it may also be the marriage itself which emphasizes this neuroticism. What was first created?

Many studies have determined that a satisfactory sexual relationship improves the mood of the couple, but whether these successful relationships would completely annul the effects of neuroticism have never been determined.  So far. One study examined the behavior of 72 newly married couples where the period that varied from having sex once a week up to three times a month. All of them said they were happy in their marriage so that might be associated with marital satisfaction with sexual frequency.

However, an exception appeared. Couples which in the first test showed high levels of neuroticism did to improve spousal relationship thanks to sex. Basically what was found was that if you have a neurotic person next to you, there is nothing better than sex to keep his or her levels under control.

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The British newspaper the Daily Mail recently announced flexisexual concept is rising in reference to a growing number of straight girls who are hesitant to bisexuality.

However, this “disposition” is nothing new and, therefore, little biased. Above all, however, it presents a definitional problem. On the one hand, we have the flexisexual people, on the other hand, the bisexual ones. Which, to be specific, is the difference between them?

A flexisexual person, as journalists want us to think (as opposed to sociologists and psychologists), is a person with a strong sexual identity, in this case heterosexual, but that sometimes – sometimes induced by alcohol – flirts with same-sex people, and even, to speak the words of pop star Katy Perry, kissed (in this case) a girl, and liked it.

At the moment, there is nothing a bisexual person would not do anyway. But unlike the bisexual, the flexisexual, is – generally – heterosexual, apart from occasional “slips” where you can finish wrapping with a person of the same sex. In fact, a very confusing term. You could also say that a flexisexual is simply a heterosexual sexually liberated. For example, this type of person who is not opposed to a threesome with someone of the same sex. Or it is a bisexual who just does not want to be labeled “bisexual”? Although this does not make much sense, as if one does not want to be labeled, why then getting another one, as flexisexual?, which seems to be the result of a man’s erotic dream who imagines girls with vaguely lesbian tendencies, but without stopping being heterosexual, or perhaps also an avid trendhunter in search of a new way of marketing.

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Let’s better leave foggy definition and start letting people do what they want, without the need of labeling for it. Rent apartments in Marrakech forget about absurd ratings and enjoy your sexual life.

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Positive thinking has been established as a role model in our society, as the magic formula to get everything we want and complete our goals. However, few know that there is a close link between positive thinking and our health. And the impact it has on our bodies is so strong that it can even extend our life.

At least, these are the impressive results of some studies made on positivism and our health. At Carnegie Mellon University, for example, one study analyzed the development of influenza from 193 volunteers between 18 and 55 and how their positive or negative trends affected it. The result was clear and concise: those who maintained a positive stance, produced less mucus than their negative.

But this is just the beginning, as a long investigation, carried out at the Mayo Clinic found out that optimists experienced a 50% lower risk of early death than pessimists. The conclusion was that the body and mind are intrinsically connected.

And the physical difference between a pessimist and an optimist is the different levels of inflammation caused by stress and it’s linked to most known diseases, especially heart problems. Consequently we could state that a negative attitude towards life, causes stress and hence inflammation, which in turn makes us age faster and makes us sick. While optimists go through life more quietly, less stressed and with less potentially harmful side effects caused by inflammation. So simple, but so catergorical.

So the best thing you can do is to take a short break, relax and enjoy life, this will help you have a longer and healthier life.

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Languages are alive. What today is widely used tomorrow will be used by minorities. What is used by minorities can become a linguistic habit. The rules issued by regulators strata are late and wrong. They seem not to read, hear, speak or write. Sitting in their chairs, they fall asleep thinking about language, as speakers create new habits and discard other at the speed of light. To learn the language it is not enough to read and write, listening and talking are also necessary. By interacting with their circle of scholars, they will never learn new concepts. Institutions composed of old crocks that though prestigious, are enclosed in the bubble of their boring idiosyncrasies.

Now, a sms for people from RAE which I am not pretty sure they will understand: “w all knw ur nrms jst make snse n ur phlegmatic meetins. Thn let us talk nd write as w want, pls”

What’s most important is communication itself. If the speaker manages to make him understood in a clear and direct way, what does it matter if the accent is on the o or on the q? Thanks to mobile phones, economy of the written language is positioning so fast that I would not be surprised if, in about a hundred years, the RAE accepts words as they are written in text messages.

They regularly have to justify their idleness in the chairs of the RAE. So they invent a new rule as a product of their mental diarrhoea. Then they make us learn them to make us more confused than we already were. If the written language itself is open to ambiguity of double and triple reading, it will be even more if from time to time they release a landmark in the form of spelling rule.

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Many theories have been developed regarding libido in men, or more exactly, the lack of it. Many attribute the lack of sexual desire to problems related to the relationship or marriage, other to hormonal alterations. But everybody agrees in the fact that along a monogamous relationship, sexual desire diminishes in a predominant way.

The reason for this goes beyond trouble in the relationship or lack of communication between the couple. And the thing is that human beings are evolutionarily made to have more than one sexual relationship simultaneously. Especially men were designed by mother nature in a way so that sexual novelty is always more attractive and that losing interest in their current partner is normal when this novelty factor diminishes. This so-called “Coolidge” effect has been researched and proved in social mammals and it is not a novelty in reproductive biology field.

But then, how can we deal with the lack of passion in a relationship? The most important thing is to be conscious that sex is not equivalent to intimacy. A wild night, as can be brilliantly seen in the one night stands, does not have, in most cases, any sentimental transcendence. On the other hand, although a relationship is not only based on sex, it really is an important part of it and also of intimacy. Because of this, it may be reductionist and moreover fatalist arguing it only from an evolutionist point of view. However, thanks to science we know that sexual novelty is an important component for libido in men. So, what is more important is not letting sex fall into the routine, but the couple exploring together new sensual worlds.

Heloise Battista

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